What Toddlers Teach Us: 6 Lessons in Life and Parenting

Parenting Through a Toddler’s Eyes

Parenting toddlers offers a whirlwind of growth—for them and for us. As we guide them through milestones, they often teach us just as much in return. From how they forgive to the joy they find in the little things, toddlers provide powerful insights into how to live better, more joyful lives.

Here are six life-changing lessons I’ve learned from raising my daughter—lessons that have made me a better parent and a better person.

1. Forgiveness Comes Easily

Toddlers don’t hold grudges. One minute they’re upset, and the next they’re laughing. It’s incredible how they let negative emotions go so quickly—reminding us that life is lighter when we forgive freely.

2. Friendship Is Simple

Watch your toddler at a park and you’ll see friendship in action. They don’t need shared history or common interests—they just connect. As adults, we can learn to be more open and willing to reach out, whether it’s with a colleague or another parent at school drop-off.

3. Rediscover Awe and Wonder

Everything is new and fascinating to toddlers. The world is full of wonder if you choose to see it through their eyes. From the sound of birds to the shape of clouds, your child reminds you to be present and curious.

4. Know What You Want (and Go For It)

Toddlers are determined. When they want something, they make sure you know it! While the methods may be intense (hello tantrums), there’s something inspiring about their focus and persistence. As adults, we often need that same conviction.

5. Slow Down and Enjoy the Moment

Yes, toddlers take forever to walk 100 metres—but they’re enjoying the journey. A bug on the sidewalk or a puddle to jump in is part of the experience. Instead of rushing, take their lead and savour the moment.

6. Radical Honesty

Toddlers don’t lie. They’ll tell you exactly what happened, how they feel, and what they think. Their honesty is refreshing—and a reminder that transparency and truthfulness can build stronger, more trusting relationships.

Final Thoughts

Raising toddlers isn’t just about teaching—it’s about learning. These little humans are full of wisdom, joy, and lessons we often forget. So next time things get tough, take a breath… and ask yourself, What would my toddler do?